A little while I ago I wrote a post for The WM Parenting Connection titled 'Brave or Selfish?'.
I am delighted to see that quite a few people have commented on this particular post. What a well balanced lot those people are!
You can read the post and the comments here http://www.thewmparentingconnection.com/2010/06/brave-and-selfish-by-claire-hegarty.html
Please feel free to leave a comment yourself, either on this blog or over at the comments page at the above site.
Much appreciated! All the best to you.